So, after much consideration (and a 2 hour phone call with my dearest friend last night) I discovered that I have the answer to ALL of your relationship woes...
WAIT FOR IT...
This simple concept can answer all of the agonizing "Why doesn't he call?" "Why won't he commit?" "How come he takes three days to return a call/text/bbm?" "Why is he acting like a complete assbag when we had such an amazing first date?" questions...
READY?
Ladies, this is not new and I did not invent this so don't judge... however, so often we forget that if a man wants you, there is no obstacle that can derail him from manifesting his feelings for you with positive and declarative gestures. So when you are wondering "why?", realize, the answer is simply, BECAUSE HE DON'T WANT YO' ASS!!! Any man who cannot look at you and realize the quality woman you are doesn't care to and probably has little interest and respect for you. The reasons may vary; maybe you've made yourself too available, too easy or came across as too desperate. Or, (and more importantly) the universe (or God) whichever you believe in, is trying to prepare you for a greater, more quality partner by removing Sir Douche from your life. When he is showing signs of disinterest, don't over-think it. Accept that he doesn't want you, declare that it's his loss, and move the hell on- pride intact!
Great idea... I'm looking forward to some VERY candid commentary from you... just let me know when you will be taking questions! lol... this should be good
ReplyDeleteLOL, questions always welcome!
ReplyDeleteAlso, feel free to suggest a topic and make sure you share my blog with friends (especially all you Facebook junkies... I swear, I'm gonna invent a FB patch to cure the addiction, LOL.)
ReplyDeleteKeep them coming...recently went thru the above and its not a good feeling...knowing dude only wants the ass...and nothing else. But a lesson learned is always a good thing cause it will never happen again.
ReplyDeleteHaven't we all?! The worst part of it is accepting that women have lowered the bar so much that men have nothing to work for, for the most part. When they get a quality woman, they don't know how to treat her and are often so threatened by the task that it's easier to get Shantiqua Alize Jackson, because all it takes to impress HER is some Henny and a 20 sack (that's weed for you squares)...or then again, he may just not be into "you"
ReplyDeleteI'm just sayin'
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ReplyDeleteOMG my friend and I were having this same convo the other day and i told her nearly the same thing!! this is a great blog!!! =]
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